Men’s Body Language, Decoded: What’s He Really Telling You?

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Men’s Body Language, Decoded: What’s He Really Telling You?

When it comes to understanding men—and their interest level in you—do you need a translator? We asked the top body-language experts about men’s most confusing mixed signals and found that it’s not what he says but what he does that really matters.

Lip Smacker: He Licks His Lips
You’ve seen it in cartoons: When a cat’s about to pounce on a mouse, he licks his lips first, right? Tonya Reiman, author of The Power of Body Language, says it’s not much different when humans lick their lips. “He’s hungry for you,” she says. “We lick our lips in anticipation when we see something we desire.” He may be so “hungry for you,” in fact, that your presence makes him feel uneasy: “When we get nervous, our saliva glands stop secreting, and our mouths get dry” —leading to lip-licking,” adds body language expert Patti Wood.

Suddenly You See: He Pushes Your Hair out of Your Eyes
“Anytime a man touches you, he’s telling you he’s attracted to you,” says Reiman. But the experts agree that this body language action isn’t about, well, getting some action. “It’s intimate and hints that he wants more than just sex from you,” says Tracey Cox, author of Superflirt. “It’s a sign that he wants to touch you and get close, but needs an excuse to do it.” Just be wary, warns Wood: “If he grimaces while he does it, it shows the need to have things correct or perfect.” And be aware of your own reaction to this body language cue, too; he’s paying attention: “This is a test, explains Kevin Hogan, Psy.D., author of Irresistible Attraction: Secrets of Personal Magnetism. “It’s a direct way for him to say, ‘If you smile, I know you like me back.’”

Mover, Shaker: He Sways While He Speaks
When a guy rocks back and forth, he’s having a mama’s-boy moment, our body language experts agree. “The front-to-back sway is typically a comforting motion mimicking being rocked in the mother’s womb,” says Wood. But don’t head for the door just yet. “If the sway brings him all the way up on his toes, it indicates happiness.” Cox adds that, when you see this cue, you should ask yourself why he’s craving that comfort: Are you sending out signals that you want him to leave, for example? “Swaying on our feet is an ‘intention movement,’ where his body starts to do what his brain would like it to do. In this case, he’s half staying and half running away,” she says. Hogan, however, says this may have nothing to do with you at all: “A lot of people do this if they’ve had a drink or two.”

Rise and Shine: He Lifts His Eyebrows
Next time I see you, remind me not to talk to you, said comedian Groucho Marx. And who needs words when your guy is being so communicative with his eyebrows? This Groucho-like body language cue is all about context: “Surprise, happy recognition, skepticism… So much of this is in the timing,” says Wood. But if he raises his eyebrows quickly, you’re in luck. “That’s called an ‘eyebrow flash,’” says Reiman. “Coupled with a smile, you can usually assume he’s attracted to you.” He might also think you’ve said something cute, but he’s trying to play it cool, says Cox. She adds, “It’s an almost universal sign that he fancies you. After all, we raise our brows to allow our eyes to take in as much as possible of what’s in front of us.”

Can’t Sit Still: He Fidgets in His Chair
Is he squirming in his seat? That usually indicates that something’s wrong—and he wants out. In fact, Tonya Reiman, author of The Power of Body Language, goes so far as to say, “It signals anxiety or nervousness—a desire to end a conversation or to leave a situation.” Sex and body language expert Tracey Cox, on the other hand, has a more optimistic point of view: “He’ll also do it if he’s getting sexually excited and is trying to hide or calm down a potential erection!”

Animated Moves: He Talks with His Hands
You’ve got a big, um, personality on your hands with this guy, says Cox. “If you want an intense relationship, he’s your guy!” Hm, “intense” is a pretty loaded word, isn’t it? But she says not to worry: “He’s expressive and passionate. Men who talk with their hands are usually good communicators.” According to body language expert Patti Wood, it’s also possible that he wants to get serious, but he can’t figure out exactly how to tell you: “Using your hands helps you access more information in your brain, especially emotional information and emotion-laden words.” And Hogan takes it one step further: “The wider the gestures and the more he does this, the more he likes you.”

Comb On Now: He Runs His Fingers through His Hair
When birds in the wild smooth or clean their feathers to look their best for a potential mate, it’s called preening—and this human body language cue is no different. “We preen as a way to draw attention to ourselves,” Reiman explains. Wood agrees there’s a good chance that he’s interested in you if he fixes his hair in your presence, but that’s not all: “If he dips his head forward and gently cups his hair and smiles, it signals he wants to look good for you. But if he does it as he’s approaching you or as you’re approaching him, he’s nervous about his appearance,” she says. So, if you like him back, this may be a good time to comfort him with a compliment.

Spread ‘Em: He Sits or Stands with His Legs Splayed
This is one of the manliest of all body language moves. “Sitting with the legs splayed shows ‘machismo,’” says Wood. “[It’s like saying], ‘I am the alpha male.’” He may even think it turns you on, Cox says: “If he’s sitting with his legs wide apart, he’s giving you a ‘crotch display’—a sneak preview of what he thinks is his best part!” You may not want to take Mr. Big Stuff home to Mom and Dad, though, says Kevin Hogan, Psy.D., author of Irresistible Attraction: Secrets of Personal Magnetism, “You need an ego like this like you need another past boyfriend. Pick another guy.” Harsh!

Cheeky! He Strokes His Face
“Three cheers for this guy!” says Hogan. “He’s not trying to impress you; he’s just trying to listen to you.” He also may be mulling over his next move, and that could be one of a few things: Tonya Reiman, author of The Power of Body Language, thinks his next step will be emotional: “He’s contemplating an idea or thought.” But Cox says it may be physical: “We ‘self-stroke’ when we desperately want to stroke the person in front of us, but don’t feel like we can yet.” Regardless, this guy is a keeper.

Palm Sunday: He Reaches Out His Hand
When a man stretches out his hand, he’s asking for your permission, as in, “’I want to get close to you. Can I’?” says Reiman. But exactly how he does it determines whether he feels vulnerable or confident: “Palm up means he’s happy for you to take the lead from there. It’s a more submissive and innocent gesture,” says sex and body language expert Tracey Cox. “Palm down means he feels in control of what’s going to happen.” In fact, you can tell a lot about a relationship by how a couple holds hands: “The person whose palm faces down is usually the boss,” she says.

Getting Ahead: He Kisses You… On Your Forehead
If your guy chooses to plant one on your forehead of all places, it’s “a great sign of tenderness,” according to body language expert Patti Wood. Reiman agrees: “This is a signal of deep respect and affection, especially if he cradles your head simultaneously.” Tenderness, respect, affection… That all sounds well and good, but where’s the heat? “This is a parental gesture,” says Tracey Cox. “He cares for you deeply, but he may just see you as a friend.” Ugh, that’s what we were afraid of—but not so fast: “It could also mean he fancies you, but he doesn’t have the guts to aim for your lips.” There’s hope for you yet!

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  1. those are good ones i didnt know somebt nids more

  2. WHAT DOES IT MEAN WHEN A MAN SAYS HE HAS PICTURED YOU IN A WEDDING DRESS?

  3. Sounds like a pretty good sign, Alice.

  4. NEVER KNOW THAT HAHA BOYS ARE WERID BUT CUTE AT THE SAME TIME

  5. Hey, there is another one too I call ‘the Jewellery Test’. If you’re out with him and chatting ‘subconsciously’ take off anitem of jewellery and set it on the table. How he communicates with it tells you how he feels about you. If he ignores it then likely he is not paying attention or if you’re in a relationship he takes you for granted. If he picks it up and plays about with it for a while and sets it back, it’s how he’ll treat you. But if he examines it and puts it on, he wants to be close to you and for you to be around him for a while.

  6. I found a lot of this to be true, this guy that I have been seeing does just about all of these things…I sense he is falling in love. He stares at me a lot and drops his head when I catch him, but I do him the same way. Why does his touch seem to “burn” and move all the way through me? I can still feel the heat of his touch when his hand is no longer touching me.

  7. My friend(a boy) sits with his legs open and everything but does it mean he is giving me the preveiw thing? He is very sweet and nice to me and he does all of the things on here also?
    P.S we both like each other, he has told me tht he likes me. :)

  8. Erica your so lucky I hope my friend (a boy) says that to me. And he also does the open leg thing and is that really what he’s ”saying”?

  9. soo this ”Thingy’s” been going on for 2 and 1/2 years now…

    This guy I see around as we work in the same building…. I first seen him because I had this odd feeling someone was starring at me, so as i’ve looked up to inspect The situation he’s just starring with a tiny hint of a smile… Soo in response I smiled back… Ever since we still have Not uttered a single word to each other but I notice without fail he often does stuff to walk by my work place though he has No need to and I think Unconsciously I do it to..

    I have no idea what the go is but its like

    Nothing I have Ever come across in my Life!!!

    He’s attractive but Not my ”Usual”

    if either of us walks passed the others work place we smile and stuff but the second we pass each other in the street its soo awkward though I’ve wanted to say ‘hey’ he Doesn’t make eye contact.

    I Have No idea how to take it Though I Bust him watching me walk by All the time I don’t know whether I should be flattered or freaked out!!

    Some advise please I’m So Confused but I’m old fashioned n think he should say ‘hi’ first now since I’ve Tried So many times now…

    Any Advise would be Great!

    Thank you

  10. i might be the guy you’re talking bout but just say hi and ask him his name who knows he might be shy

  11. ^Lol!

  12. I was once told that men also touch your shoulder subconsciously to get a feel as it is similar to how your breasts feel.

  13. Yesterday a guy that I’m in love with did everything but unfortunately is in a relationship is it still the same

  14. You must move on for it seems that the guy wants
    the best of two worlds. You deserve better. Be
    the stronger one.

  15. Okay, I like this guy and he is in all of my morning classes and I alway see him looking at me, but me being me I look away in 2 sec. One day I was walking down the hall to meet my friend and we passed each other and looked into each others eyes and we didn’t smile at all but I wanted to sat “hi” but I couldn’t! What I was wondering is dose he not like me if he dissent smile?!?

  16. This guy keeps on staring at me he does some of the moves like the lip thing and smiling and he said hi to me a couple of times. my friend told him I liked him and I’m scared what if he doesn’t like me and he’s just a natural flirt? Please help b4 monday!!!! (its saturday)

  17. hello, I have this guy I really like, we have been out on days out
    together, had a good time, laugh and joke, even been to cinemas, holding
    hands, he strokes my neck and body, all of this is amazing, also have had
    physical contact but the other day he said he cant do the physical side
    as he does not fancy me, which I am finding hard to understand, as he
    said I am pretty and hot but just dont fancy me, yet had sex with me on
    lots of occasions. Help please

  18. well,i like a guy, and hanging out together A LOT,we hug eachother and all that stuff.and today on a school trip,he did the lip thing(while we were talking) and he sent me kisses on the air.But I’m not sure if he likes me more than a best friend…

  19. I see this guy every week twice a week some times once a week and we do like each other i know this we flirt like crazy with each other but he won’t ask me out and when I see him he sits likes this he sits down in front of me with one leg up and he holds his knee with his and leans back with one foot on the ground what does this mean should i take it to mean that I should ask him out or back off and do the friend thing?

  20. Why would a guy sit down in front of me in a chair facing right at me and make eye contact while talking to me? Just curious if there are any positive indications of attraction. Thanks

  21. I have been dating my boyfriend for 4 mnths now. He seems to be a little “too” perfect by picking me up from my classes so I wont have to take the bus, he doesn’t force me to engage into intamecy w/him(and we haven’t yet),and overall, i think he really wants me in his life. I’m a little unsure if he loves me, call it lack of backbone but i’m more scared to melt into him. He kisses me a lot, kisses my forehead,and calls me all the time. Does he love me?

  22. Okay girls,
    I was reading this and it really gave me a headache, because I know the answer to every question but see no answers. So for the girls that asked if he likes you or not:

    first off, erica: Almost every REAL man with a bit of guts spreads his legs when he sits. It means it is your territory and I never thought of subconsciously giving ‘penis’-signals to a woman. Guys who sit with their legs together are either gay or autistic.

    kyra: Guys are shy too, and are afraid of rejection. When you see a girl you like, you don’t want to mess up, by giving the ‘power’ to her. When he smiles at you, it means he likes you and is honest with it. But what happens with you **** girls, is that you know he likes you, so there’s no challenge for you anymore, so you won’t like him anymore, because you already got him in your pocket. Shy guys won’t even look at you, or only brief and then look away fast. Smart guys or guys who know game, know that you have to look at a girl without smiling, maybe just a little itty bitty mouthcorner-raise. That’s when you think: Was he smiling at me or do I have something on my face?
    So conclusion: If he’s shy he probably won’t look, but would never smile. If he’s smart/confident, he will look, and MAYBE smile. (everyones different)

    eva: So he’s driving you everywhere, he’s afraid that if he has sex with you too soon, that you’ll think he only wants sex. Foreheadkisses are a sign of affection, he wants to protect you.
    But if he calls you all the time: HE HATES YOU!
    Yes, I am kidding. It really seems like he is in love with you and doesn’t want to lose you.

    Oh and lol @ angie smith. So he first takes you out to the cinema and is all nice, then has sex with you and then says he doesn’t fancy you. But still has sex with you?
    Do you really need an explanation?
    And probably because you do: He only wants sex.

    Well girls, it was my pleasure. Probably nobody even reads the answers, but I got 1/4th chance that for sure one of you will read it, so good luck to you!

    20yo guy

  23. My guy does all these things I’m lucky

  24. I’ve been observing my manager over the past couple of months and he consistently touches his face arount his mouth/cheek when i speak. I am really puzzled by this as i don’t think he is attracted to me in any way…could he be bored when i speak? He often compliments me on how i’m dressed, but i am just really puzzled….the minute someone else starts to speak – his hand is clear from his face.

  25. when a guy smiles and raises his eyebrows at you what does that mean?

  26. When I gave my partner a kiss on his cheek he lifted up his left leg. What does that mean? Thanks Donna.

  27. my guy always smiles the minute he sees me.then holds his arms open for me to come and get hugs. but does he love me?????he never has said so.

  28. when a guy holds your face when he kisses you what does that mean?

  29. I have excited energy about a family friend. He’s about 10 years younger than me, so I’m freaking out, because I am very attracted to him and his personality. I’m reserved and picky, but do tend to have an outgoing friendly personality. I was friendly to all my guests the same. He’s a got a open and funny sense of humor, but I noticed when I talked to him he was fidgeting and looking in to a vase, grabbing the lemon in front of him and avoided eye contact with me, but when he did look at me, he would get a bashful smile on his face. He’s been over a few times, we hug and call each other sweetie. I’ve done my best to play the friend role and talk to him about girls and friends, etc. Kind of trying to play the aunt role, although. deep inside I don’t feel that at all. The last time time he came over, he seemed really relaxed with me. when he was saying goodbye, we hugged and rubbed each others back for a good 15 to 20 seconds, just giving tons of love and holding tighter. When we stopped, his hand fell into my hand and we squeezed for about 3 seconds. as he was walking away, I said ” sweetie, come here your shirt is not tucked in the back. He walked over to me while tucking it in and then turned around for me to fix the rest. I don’t know if he has any kind of crush or if it’s just liking me like a lot of friends do. I’m 40 he’s 30 and I’m really feeling like this is against the law or something, but it’s feeling exciting. Just don’t want to be assuming anything. How would you read into what I’ve explained?

  30. The man I was dating did most of the things written about in this article. He would touch my face…always smile with both his lips and eyes when around me…couldn’t get enough of me. He constantly had to be touching me somehow…the chemistry was immense. He couldn’t stop thinking about me and in his words I consumed his being. THEN I got a text…saying he wasn’t feeling the way he should and wished me the best…WTF? I think he was scared about what he was starting to feel…and ran!!! So how do you ever truly know?

  31. My friend(a boy) always looks at my lips or below them. I like him. my sister said she heard him say he likes me but i don’t know. I hope he does. he also tries to touch my arm or hand. Once in the hallway at school, we were leaving and i was against the wall and he pushed me gently to the wall and put his side next to mine so they were rubbing. Do you think he likes me?

  32. good advice!!!
    what if ur just sitting next to the guy but, hes laying down (splayed) and he grabes u and puts u close to his mouth but doesn’t actually kiss you

  33. If a guy touches his forehead with mine what does that mean and he usually touches my head and smiles?

  34. Hi there, would really appreciate if someone could maybe tell me what this means. There is this guy. He has told me before that he likes me but I don’t know if he really does. We have been having this thing on and of. Most of the times I end it cause I really don’t know what he wants from me. We have had sex a few times, usually after I end things he will say things like he misses me then I end up going back to him. Anyways after we have sex he would kiss me on the forehead at least 3 times. The last kiss usually when I leave, does anyone know what this means? He does kiss me on the lips to but I want to know what the forehead kiss means after we have slept together?

  35. nost of these explanations are pretty good. I also wonder, what does it mean if he chomps on ice while talking to you or blushes in the face when you look at him? or he looks at you when you walk away? it is odd for a female and male that have been friends for a while to like another more?

  36. This guy I like its super complicated I want to know what it means when we are together we are so chatty and we like constantly play fight this summer i got a sun burn and I was over at his sisters he was there the complicated part is so was his girl friend I went into the bed room with his sister to look at somthing and he left his girl friend in the living room and came and stood right bye me i had a sun burn on my nose and I was like feel and he touched it so softly and sweet he also came and sat by me when he could of sat in the chair he was sitting in when i got there. I felt kinda bad because his girl friend got up and walked over beside us and started talking for him like beggin for his attention they both went in the kitchen and he didn’t sit back bye me and when he did she sat closer to us after she sat by us and he came out of the kitchen he was kinda cold to me and wouldn’t talk alot…What does it mean I just want to know if it sounds like he has feelings for me…I know he doesn’t just want sex from me. I can’t explain it to you but I know trust me. Just please give me your advice

  37. What does it mean if a man is shaking hands with a woman and he admits to forgetting her name, and when jokingly chastized while still clasping the woman’s right hand with both of his hands he bends down and presses the woman’s hand against his forehead?

  38. Depends. If he was being cocky it could mean he is showing his ego to get you to like him. It really depends on what the conversation was about. If you give me more details I would love to give you some advice. I would also love if you ansered my question it is right above yours by silent love…Here it is again if you would tell me what you think..

    This guy I like its super complicated I want to know what it means when we are together we are so chatty and we like constantly play fight this summer i got a sun burn and I was over at his sisters he was there the complicated part is so was his girl friend I went into the bed room with his sister to look at somthing and he left his girl friend in the living room and came and stood right bye me i had a sun burn on my nose and I was like feel and he touched it so softly and sweet he also came and sat by me when he could of sat in the chair he was sitting in when i got there. I felt kinda bad because his girl friend got up and walked over beside us and started talking for him like beggin for his attention they both went in the kitchen and he didn’t sit back bye me and when he did she sat closer to us after she sat by us and he came out of the kitchen he was kinda cold to me and wouldn’t talk alot…What does it mean I just want to know if it sounds like he has feelings for me…I know he doesn’t just want sex from me. I can’t explain it to you but I know trust me. Just please give me your advice

  39. silent love: i think perhpas one event isn’t enough to show but if you have felt his closeness to you many times then this episode you described could defintiely mean hes getting into you– after he came back out of the kitchen he was cold to you bc of the things that his gf talked to him about (like staying farther away from you on the chair etc) since she obviously felt the fire…yet, it may have just been a momentary thing..he mightve been mad with his gf that day for some reason beforehand, and so wanted to brush that off by putting more attention on you, etc. but are you trying to bring him on? is he taking the bait? only you could know for sure

    perhaps you could give me some suggestions on my complications?

  40. Whut does it mean when the guy you like says he kinda likes you but acts like it never happened? Like, When he says that you’re different and he likes it a lot, when he says that you’re a lot nicer than all the other girls, but acts like he never said that? Also when he reads your texts to him but doesn’t reply? He also flirts with me a teeny tiny bit from time to time…
    Whut does it mean?!?!?!? Pwease answer/help. Thankies!

  41. Hi I also would like to ask I’ve got a gay friend we be came friends in the same co.we are working with. It just left hanging questions in my mind, the caring actuations.sweetness and his kindness are not the same treatment he would also show to his women friends…like what does it mean, he would kiss me always at the back of my head or smell the top of my head , when My back is turned against him, all of a sudden he will be at might back then hug me tightly and he would kiss and smell my shoulder then while doing so he would like at me if I’m looking on what he’s doing to me…he would also steal a look on me, then when i catches him staring at me, he would give me a sweet smile then quickly look away…I’m just puzzled if he is really a gay or bisexual. And further this is the one that gives me more doubt if he is really gay as gay will not say anything like this to a girl…he said that if he has a baby already , he wanted his baby, as pretty and intelligent like me..what does this all mean?please enlighten me.

  42. A really hot boy I know always comes up to me during school(I’m a junior) and he stands really really close without actually touching me! He’ so close I can feel his breath and if I stand on my tip toes we would be losing. He is a major flirt but I like him a lot. What should I do? Should I just lean forward and smash my lips into his? Or should I just playfully hit him?

  43. so there’s this guy I like in a petshop and I go there everyday to see ”my mom’s boyfriend” because he works there too so everytime we see eachother we say hello and he always finds a way to touch me he always touches my waste with one hand when he wants to pass by but we barely talk we talk but very little so I don’t know if he likes me and another thing i8s the way he looks at me he looks at me for 3 seconds he stays mesmerized he always looks mesmerized when am around

  44. Okay, Please help me on this one!! I am 17 and I am going to be 18 in April! The guy I like is 28 and will be 29 this Fall!! Well don’t judge the age, also he is my step moms brother….Please do not judge me…We are not in anyway related by blood it is not insest, we did not grow up as family. Only a year ago did I acknowlede his sister as my step mom. Please don’t judge. Anyways we play around alot joking with each other, he takes his shirt off around me alot. I am a virgin and he knows this. What I am telling is more than one occasion well we were talking and some how it got brought up about us having sex (we have not we were all fooling around) his reply was I don’t want to go to jail. While I laughed. When I walked out of the kitchen he kicked him in the butt joking with the side of his foot (hard to explain how but he was facing the oposite way as me and kicked me) Then we both laughed then I taped him on like his leg and but combined. Later that day he had a unfrosted cup cake and dropped it and was playing with me again and threw it and hit me in the boob, my reply was you hit my boobie, his reply was they looked hungry. Then next weekend I stayed the night we were messing around in the kitchen and I had something in my hand and I turned away from him and had it behind my back in his view well he tried to grab it and like was messing like he was twisting my arm with I lightly tapped his other arm we were play fighting. We were throwing things at each other and when I walked out of the kitchen he smacked me in the butt with a pringles can.The next day we were sitting on the couch together we were sitting close kind of just leaning into each other but not touching home alone while my step mom went to go get my dad my step mom walked in when she got home and was like look at you too his brother walked in and looked at us weird while his girl friend sat in the chair I didn’t see her do anything but he changed the way he was sitting completely. When he left his brother made a joke about us “cuddling on the couch” but we really weren’t Later that day we were flicking each other and he went to go take a shower but took his shirt off and wrapped it up and was like towel snapping me with his shirt he got me in the arm and was like that one hurt I said a little and I was like but I took it well, he said yeah you did and we both laughed my step mom said you two are gross. When he got in the shower he shut all the doors except one the one that led into the living room where I was sitting, when he got out he was in just his towel and he smiled at me weird almost like an invitation (believe me I wanted to take it!!) At dinner we had chicken breast that were so huge we all agreed and made a comment about them being to big, he looks at my with his grin that I love and have never seen until recently I like my breast about a handful look right at me still smiling then walked into his room. The next day my step mom left again to get my dad and we were home alone again, I was in the living room alone for awile and then asked if I could come sit on his bed and he said sure. We finished a movie together and he heard a door and said ***** is home I said do you want me to leave? He said Noo then like we are he followed it up with a your such a girl, I told him I am a girl, He just looked at me. Me and his sister were in the bedroom and they were playing and he started pinching her thigh hard I told him thats mean and it hurts and i went to get up to walk about and he said I know and did it to my leg playing so I grabbed his and did it to him and we started laughing and looked at each other then I walked out. He throws stuff at my boobs and flicks me alot, a guy his age shouldn’t want a 17 year old in his room and staying home alone with him alot but doesn’t mind at all he acts like he likes me there with him. He acted sad when I said I wasn’t staying another night. This isn’t everything but what I can think of and what I can write right now. I like him alot and I am very VERY sexually attracted to him. I need some advice on does it sound like he wants me too please help me I don’t know ho to feel right now but he was rubbing his leg were I could see it and the way he was doing it was turning me on. I don’t know what to think but I want him so badly in a sexual way and I like hime more than that just please reply soon!! Thank you :)

  45. Okay , like this guy ; if I see him in the hall or at lunch he will hug me & kiss my forehead & tell me that I’m really cute :D , okay so I don’t know what that means ?

  46. There is a guy at my work, I think he is really cute but he is 2 years younger than me and going to college. The competition is pretty steep up there at the college. There are more girls than guys and they are all man-hungry. I feel like he can’t like me because I’m older than him and I probably look like a less cute, older, fatter, version of the girls he’s going to school with. When he first started working here he would look at me and hold my gaze until I shifted my eyes down and away. I felt like he was studying me. He would talk to my coworkers but be looking at me and have his body positioned toward me. I’ve read that this means he likes me but…. he won’t talk to me directly and I am not really a shy person (I actually have a really strong stubborn personality and I’m very fun loving and adventurous and pretty much the opposite of shy) but I think he is really adorable so I am really really shy around him and my heart pounds horribly just thinking about going up and talking to him. Anyway, I talked to him a couple days ago and I didn’t do it because I was being friendly and trying to have conversation-I had to relay a message from my co workers but I caught myself smiling at him slightly and very flirty like and he returned the same kind of smile to me but today (the first time since I’ve seen him last time)he didn’t talk to me and I saw he would look my way when talking to someone else but then when I turned to look at him he looked away and then I made it so he could walk past me on his way out but lingering by one of the exits so he could talk to me if he wanted to and it would be like he had to go out of his way…..and he used the other exit. Does he think I’m a crazy stalker and he is avoiding me?

    Also he met a friend in the parking lot today and they were parked right in front of my giant ground floor window and you cant see inside very well but I can see outside fine and he went to his friend’s car and he kept looking back into the window….he was either looking at his reflection or trying to see inside

  47. It honestly sounds like he likes you, But then like your confused with how he wouldn’t talk to you. Maybe he is realizing feelings for you and is getting a little bit shy. Who knows really you need to decide back off and forget him or maybe talk to him a little more. Just be your self and see what happens…I would love for you to answer my question its a few above yours called shhhh its a secret!

  48. So to the shhh it’s a secret question…i understand where you are coming from i am now 20 and the guy i had this experience wi tv h worked at my high school and of course it was before n.up until.i was legal.when i was 17 he was 28.but so i did get to talk to him after i graduated n.he admitted he always inappropriately flirted witb me n had something for me n tried his best to fight it,butobviously i always got missed signal,n unsaid silences,n certain comments that could lead on to me thinking obsessively like u…and so yes,this guy,your step mom’s brother does like u…or he is a man.and theyre flirtatious…and ur attractive and young…n alot of guys like virgins…the whole innocent thing and or conqueringthem…and

  49. And honestly every man likes options…its subconcious…goes back to evolutionary times…he loves the games n the mind games n your attention..makes him feel special and he is literally dangling his sex appeal.in front.of you…and hell he is that much older n has a 17 yr old into.him to…you are one hell of an ego boost.and he loves it.i would say to flaint a lil in front of him…mention other guys.bring another one.around.flirt with him…see how be reacts…let him be into you and start to wonder and feel like,damn,what is she not into me? N he will try even harder and this way you are in control of these games n if it affects him he will notice it and u will too.n then when ur 18…who knows…n when he makes jail bait comments be like ” ur just jealous u cant have this.” Or remind him ” not for long.” Or ya can say if u feel ballsy” oh so i see whats on your mind.” Cuz it deff means he has thought about it n.then.labeled u jailbait n.says it to remind.himself.

  50. I’m really confused right now… There is this guy I really fancy and we’ve know each other since high school… Whenever he is with me… It seems as though he is sending out some signals… But, I’m worried I’m reading them wrong

    Say for example when we’re sitting on a park bench… Because of uncertainty, I would usually leave a gap between us…. But during the time we talk, that gap would close and before I realise it…. Our shoulders would be touching….

    I would sometimes tickle him too~ and usually he would grab my hand for more than needed and sometimes even place my hand on his lap…

    But …even with all these signs…. He doesn’t really hold my hand when walking or crossing the road… His hands would usually be in his pocket if he walks….But if I hook my hand on his arm, he would say,”you know you can hold on tighter, right?” and give my hand a tight squeeze on his arm as if to secure my hold….

    He also asked automatically to see if I was free next week…but maybe that’s just a friendly thing…

    I’m really confused…. And I need some suggestions please….

  51. Hey Sarah Thank you for commenting on my post. No one has and you were really helpful!! Lately I have commented about him getting layed going out with his friends on his birthday….He looked at me and reasured me that the only p**sy he would be getting was the cats…(HE WAS JUST KIDDING!!) :) I honestly like him. I didn’t tell this in the last post but I caught him looking at me in his rear view mirror I talked to my mom about it and she said it seemed like he was for sure looking at me the way I desribed it. When I was walking out of the house to get into his car his friend in the front seat said wow shes really pretty! I was told by my step mom that He just looked at his friend in an odd way.I was laying in his bed one night and he was a little tipsy and he just stood there and looked at me. Another night he was just in his pajamas and he has his leggs spread a little bit (you should see the budlge btw) I said I can see you balls he said right here? Then pointed. I just smiled. He looked at me while we were in the kitchen and ask so what is it about you the gets me I mean what is it about me that gets you wet….I didn’t know what the heck to say because so many answers were running through my mind at an epic rate. He drives me crazy and so many times I have thought about going for it and just doing such dirty things to him. Recently he had a birthday party on a friday night just some poker with his brother and his brothers girl friend. My step mom asked me to stay that night and all day the next day not telling me about the small get together. The next day when I was able to come over he left to go out with his friends. :( Before he left he told me and his sister I will see you guys tomorrow. I felt bad because I didn’t get to stay. We hadn’t seen each other for almost two weeks. Do you think he missed me? I know this is a little bit over the top but I need someone to vent too!! He has been living with my step mom since like may and since I have been coming over it keeps escalating!! Just let me know about these things. Thanks again for replying.

  52. Ok so I know this has no realtion to the article but there is this guy i like and i accidentally tripped him and he kind of laughed and made a joke as after i apologized frantically. I am freinds with his best friend and im sure he has talked about me to him because he has previously shown some of the signs of interest but im still pretty sure he doesnt know I exsist . Do you think that cute little smile from me tripping him was enough?

  53. What does it mean when a man is near you, but he gets really nevous and sweaty and his heart starts to beat real fast? Like anxiety. But he brushes my hair out of my face to look at me and in my eyes. We are very open when we talk

  54. Candice, I think the whole brushing hair out of face thing is one of the major body signs to show that he likes you…’cause he wants to see your face clearer! And how do you know his heart starts to beat real fast?

    And can someone please help me on my one as well? I’m driving myself nuts thinking about it There is this guy I really fancy and we’ve know each other since high school… Whenever he is with me… It seems as though he is sending out some signals… But, I’m worried I’m reading them wrong

    Say for example when we’re sitting on a park bench… Because of uncertainty, I would usually leave a gap between us…. But during the time we talk, that gap would close and before I realise it…. Our shoulders would be touching….and he seems really relaxed around me~

    I would sometimes tickle him too~ and usually he would grab my hand for more than needed and sometimes even place my hand on his lap…

    But …even with all these signs…. He doesn’t really hold my hand when walking or crossing the road… His hands would usually be in his pocket when he walks….But if I hook my hand on his arm, he would say,”you know you can hold on tighter, right?” and give my hand a tight squeeze on his arm as if to secure my hold….

    He also asked automatically to see if I was free next week…but maybe that’s just a friendly thing…then suggest that when I am in the country next time, we can go grab dinner and do something Christmasy~,

    I’m really confused…. And I need some suggestions, please help me!!!!

  55. He told me and he put my hand on his chest. Our mouths get real dry. He has had real bad relationships and a real bad and controling marriage. He has had his flings for years. We haven’t seen eachother since school and I came to his state to come visit and see it. And he became that way. He is afraid of rejection for sure. He can make a move but if anyone else does he gets afraid. We have spoken about our pasts. I came out of a bad and controling relationship also. And now not being with him i am seeing how controling it was and did not know it was that bad.There is so much more to it also. But your friend for sure likes you. Those are signs also for sure. He is probably nervous because not sure on how you would respond back. And how far apart are you guys? If it would help i can tell you more if that will help. I am just really trying to understand why he has become this way.

  56. Oh wow… he places your hand on his chest? Hmm… from what you’ve been saying, like: brushing your hair from your face and placing your hand on his chest…. I think he is just trying to give himself a reason to get closer to you, touch you and close that gap between the two of you. Wanting you to feel how fast his heart beats is perhaps his way of showing you how nervous/excited/happy he is when you two are together. I think he likes you and wants to confide in you but, like you said, is afraid that you would reject him and wouldn’t like him the same way. Is he the only person you’re seeing now or is there someone else?

    As for my friend and I… well, we’re living in opposite sides of the world. He is in UK and I am currently in Asia. The whole distance thing… yea, I know it sucks… and I believe he takes it into consideration as well. He is not a texting person which doesn’t help much… he rarely texts me cause he is quite busy… he says so himself and I know so. So sometimes, I think I’m reading too much into his actions…perhaps he is just being extra nice to a friend who rarely visits. Yet, even when he is really busy, he sets time aside to see me when I’m in UK. Would a guy set time aside in his busy schedule to see a good female friend?

  57. Okay, Please help me on this one!! I am 17 and I am going to be 18 in April! The guy I like is 29. Don’t judge the age, also he is my step moms brotheR. Please do not judge me…We are not in anyway related by blood it is not insest, we did not grow up as family. Only a year ago did I acknowlede his sister as my step mom. Please don’t judge. Anyways we play around alot joking with each other, he takes his shirt off around me alot. I am a virgin and he knows this. What I am telling is more than one occasion well we were talking and some how it got brought up about us having sex (we have not we were all fooling around) his reply was I don’t want to go to jail. While I laughed. When I walked out of the kitchen he kicked me in the butt joking with the side of his foot (hard to explain how but he was facing the oposite way as me and kicked me) Then we both laughed then I taped him on his leg and butt combined. Later that day he had a unfrosted cup cake and dropped it and was playing with me again and threw it and hit me in the boob, my reply was you hit my boobie, his reply was they looked hungry. Then next weekend I stayed the night we were messing around in the kitchen and I had something in my hand and I turned away from him and had it behind my back in his view well he tried to grab it and was messing he was twisting my arm I lightly tapped his other arm we were play fighting. We were throwing things at each other and when I walked out of the kitchen he smacked me in the butt with a pringles can.The next day we were sitting on the couch together we were sitting close kind of just leaning into each other but not touching we were home alone while my step mom went to go get my dad she walked in when she got home and was like look at you too his brother walked in and looked at us weird while his girl friend sat in the chair I didn’t see her do anything but he changed the way he was sitting completely. When he left his brother made a joke about us “cuddling on the couch” but we really weren’t Later that day we were flicking each other and he went to go take a shower but took his shirt off and wrapped it up and was like towel snapping me with his shirt he got me in the arm and was like that one hurt I said a little but I took it well, he said yeah you did and we both laughed my step mom said you two are gross. When he got in the shower he shut all the doors except the one that led into the living room where I was sitting, when he got out he was in just his towel and he smiled at me weird almost like an invitation (believe me I wanted to take it!!) At dinner we had chicken breast that were so huge we all agreed and made a comment about them being to big, he looks at my with his grin that I love and have never seen until recently I like my breast about a handful looking right at me still smiling then walked into his room. The next day my step mom left again to get my dad and we were home alone again, I was in the living room alone for awile and then asked if I could come sit on his bed and he said sure. We finished a movie together and he heard a door and said ***** is home I said do you want me to leave? He said Noo then like we are he followed it up with a your such a girl, I told him I am a girl, He just looked at me. What did he mean by don’t be such a girl? Me and his sister were in the bedroom and they were playing and he started pinching her thigh hard I told him thats mean and it hurts and i went to get up to walk out and he said I know and did it to my leg playing so I grabbed his and did it to him and we started laughing and looked at each other then I walked out. He throws stuff at my boobs and flicks me alot, a guy his age shouldn’t want a 17 year old in his room and staying home alone with him alot but doesn’t mind at all he acts like he likes me there with him. He acted sad when I said I wasn’t staying another night. I like him alot and I am VERY sexually attracted to him. Lately I have commented about him getting layed going out with his friends on his birthday….He looked at me and reasured me that the only p**sy he would be getting was the cats…(HE WAS JUST KIDDING) I caught him looking at me in his rear view mirror When I was walking out of the house to get into his car his friend in the front seat said wow shes really pretty! I was told by my step mom that He just looked at his friend in an odd way. He looked at me and said what about you gets me I mean what about me gets you wet? Then he said I have dirty thoughts about you and I said its okay I have them about you in a joking way. The other day we were talking and I was like I don’t have a sex life he looked at me unzipped his pants and said you want one? He was just kidding. He jokes around alot thats the kind of people we are thats what confuses me so much. Also the fact he hasn’t ever really dated a girl who wasn’t skinny and blonde. I’m thicker and brunette.I have tried pushing my feelings aside since he is my step moms brother but I can’t help but like him. I want to know if it seems like he likes me to if he touches me he is really gentle the other day my we were all talking and my step mom turned her back away from him and he tried saying something to me but I wasn’t paying attention and when I was I didn’t know what he was gonna say. We are open if he wanted to say something why didnt he could if of been something more meaning full like he wanted to kiss me? I think that you can feel if someone wants to kiss you and it felt like he did or maybe i just wanted him too. I really really like him and he has been really kind to me. What do you think? I have posted before, here is a more up to date thing. Let me know what you think. I go over this weekend for the whole weekend. Kinda excited. :)

  58. Lola, Yeah! I live in Colorado and he lives in Hawaii. I went to visit and havent seen him in 20 years. We did do something the first day but not intercourse. Almost. I did something with him and he was able to do something that he hasn’t in 2 years.It was for him and he said he would take care of me later. But it didn’t happen. I feel it got real scared. He told me that he is not looking for a relationship and i said me neither and we are so far apart. I didn’t get to see him that much he had things going on more than I thought. He said i was to much. I did text and call some. But i was only gonna be there 9 days. I feel he was making more excuses not to be around me. He said he cares for me alot and does not want to hurt me and it is more than a sexual thing. I was giving off him that Love he felt it alot. We held hands and we were nervous and he said he never gets this its real different for him. We haven’t spoken since i lefted he said he needed time. I showed up at his house a day before I lefted and he wasn’t real happy. Because we haven’t talked for two days. And I wanted to say good bye. But he had something bad and big happen. And i asked what and he told me. I said i was real sorry and if i new i would of left him alone. I brought a gift and he said he couldn’t except it i tried again and he grabbed his head and hair and said come on. And i said ok. Hugged and said you want to talk and he said No and i said well bye and left.I said i hope we can talk and keep in touch and he said it will probably be a while. I texted a week later and no response. Just kinda told him i am here for him and i was really sorry for causing any stress and invited him here to visit if he wanted to ever. But felt better after i got it off my chest. So im gonna back off. He is really busy. And yours sounds real good. You should just joke around and ask him what if i move there? Just in a joking way. How old are you? That can tell me alot to

  59. Candice,.. It sounds to me that he is not ready to commit to anything at the moment..or it sounds like he is going through some difficult times…. He draws you near, then backs away cause he is not sure if he can handle his problems and be with you at the same time…. (I hope he is not trying to hide something from you….) But… Being so far apart,…It is slightly impolite to not respond… Or another possibility is that he is not use to getting so much love and attention…since you mentioned he just came out of a controlling marriage. He probably thinks that if you two develop anything further, the whole ‘being in love’ feeling would change..and he doesn’t want to loose that feeling…

    And for me…. I do sometimes but rarely bring it up with my friend…and I sometimes flirt with him over chat too…. But as soon as I do… He would go all quiet…perhaps he doesn’t like it.. He is definitely a cloud of mystery,.. But there is just something about him that draws me towards him… I’m 26 btw… I’ve known him since I was 14… ^^ I’m not the prettiest girl around either,… A few years back, we were both in uni, I went to his place unannounced and I saw him walking out with a pretty girl…( I am nothing like her,…i’m not skinny, nor tall…). He seemed surprised to see me and asked the girl to go to the car first,,, then stopped to talk to me… As I was leaving, he said,”awww where’s my hug?” And I just had to give him one… He was surprised when we started talking about how long we’ve known each other for and I brought it up as a joke…he looked embarrassed that I still remembered and laughed… Saying that it was awkward that time….. He talked to me about his family too… Explaining to me why he never bring his girlfriend to meet his parents or sisters….he never talked about them before,… So I was excited that he brought it up, but confused too….*sigh* am I fighting a battle I would loose?

    K.C. I think you should just be straight forward and ask him… Ask him if he likes you or not… Or whether he wants to be your bf or something along those lines….it will be better for you in the long run… If you don’t do anything about it, it is very likely that he won’t either,… And you two will continue to play the flirting game…(i mean, what kinda guy doesnt want to flirt with a cute girl, especially when he knows she likes him?) From what you’ve said…he probably likes you, but with you being his sister’s step daughter,… It might just sound weird when he is thinking about it.. But it’s up to you though….

  60. Yeah! And you have beauty or i think he still wouldn’t keep in touch. Don’t let those other girls brother you. My friend has lots of friends also. I just came out of a bad relationship to. Almost a year but in the beginning not sure when we split up, but needed to for years. When I made that dissusion I started to talk to my friend. Went good at first then I got a little needy but caught myself. Its just that I haven’t gotten attention like that in a long time. Flew out to Hawaii to see it but to go see him also. We had a thing for eachother in High School over 20 yrs ago wanted to see it was still there. He didn’t know I liked him like he liked me. He had bad relationships also then to. Been apart from his wife 4 years now , but divorce final this last june. Has a 4 yr old son. I have 4 children.I feel we still like eachother but so much still going on. I am gonna back off and let him find himself some more. I know i did something while i was there. He will just need to see it more. He told me i was there for a reason. He is a counslor for kids. He needs to help himself. I told him to find himself. He listens to everyone else and has no one listen to him. I did alot in just that short amount of time. His child hood was not great either. I let him know i care and i am here. Oh and i am the the step daughter story. that was someone else. Thanks and you will know with him soon i feel it is there for sure. I think he may be afraid also. And men like more curvey women now a days. Not skinny sticks

  61. Wow this is amazing stuff, very interesting, also very informative. After all we women would always like to know what are men are trying to say to us.

  62. What does it mean when a guy pats your cheek?

  63. Okay thanks I think that helps a lot for me.I have a crush on this boy but. I don’t know if he liked me back the same way.What if he does that to a lot of girls but he does it more to you than any girl?What does that mean?

  64. So I have written on here before well the guy I like is my step moms brother. Well the other day we were alone and we got to talking about alot of stuff well we seem to be getting closer. Well I was messing with him and I was like since we are alone lets fool around, well he pinched my shoulder a few times and was like okay. Well nothing happended sadly :( Well I told him I did something with a guy before a bj and he told me stuff he has done. Well the next day he said girls who swollow are hot and I said good for me well he seemed interested and asked if I really did and I told him the truth well he got a little excited and I asked why did he ask he said no reason…Did he get excited and start thinking about me and him? Then I wrote him on fb and told him I needed to talk to him about something he said he was leaving what is it I responded and then he did well then I told him bye and keep me in his spank bank well he responded and said he has worn it out with that thought well I wrote back OMG! Want me to kiss it and make it better well he replied perv.well I wrote back you know you loved it he didn’t write back but I think its because he left to go were he was going. Well what do you think about this do you think he likes me and do you think I have him thinking about me in a sexual way?After I told him about the bj thing he said he doesn’t like to go down on girls when I asked why he said it was because girls don’t take care of themselves and I said some do kinda like I DO IDO lol he got quiet and so did I well later that say he flicked his tongue at me and it drove me nuts he knew it did well we started laughing and my step mom goes what? and he said nothing so I followed with a nothing then a few minutes later he goes I flicked my tongue at her sensually. Well the next day he was walking in to his room and I nervously kinda asked can I ask you something he stopped in his tracks but didn’t turn around and said yeah well I was like do you think of me as a sister he paused for just a split second and said No. Well a few minutes later he came out and I asked if he thinks its weird we talk like this he said no should it be? and I replied with a No and we both got quiet. Do you all think he likes me please read what I wrote before and what I am writing now its K.C. please help me out

  65. Interesting observations. can anyone tell me what exactly it means if a man is sitting to the left of you and props his right foot up on his left leg so that the foot is near you? is that a signal of some sort? and what is up with the whole sang, if a guy likes you, he will either get quiet around you or will talk with other people in a crowd but have trouble talking to you oersonally?

  66. Ok what if he kisses me on the forehead after a very deep french kiss ….. He does that alot… Kiss me on the lips deeply and then after 10 sec.. he kisses my forehead ….. As well he kissed my finger prints …and kissed my foot …. He is acting the he is not disgusted from me at all… I remember that he once i waa kissing him and he said give me the gum u r chewing …. And I have it to him while french kissing him…. Then asked if it is okay with him and he is totally not disgusted? And he said not if it is from u ……. Can some one tell me what does this mean… ??? Thank u

  67. What does it mwan when a guy talks to his friend but stares at a girl he likes?

  68. a man came into the shop with his 3 kids they were naughty in the sweet isle , as he came over to be served i said to him one piece of good advice is dont bring the kids to the shop jokingly,he told me he only has his kids on a weekend he said something stood back to the door, facing me smiled and winked the following week he came in for a paper and small milk didnt take much notice as i was busy than usual , but sunday gone he came into the shop got his cigarrettes and as i scanned them he put both hands spread on the counter palm faced down when i gave him his change he smiled and winked at me also i did notice that he was watching me walk from the cigarrette wall to him , never noticed that before with a customer any idead as to what his intentions could be thanks xx

  69. Hey,
    Okay so ive been best friends with this guy for about 5 years since high school annd we are really comfortable with each other.

    Now, we both go to the same university and its really good. I used to see him every so often because our timetable was different. But lately he has been making time to come and see me, even if that means he leaves his lecture for a ‘toilet break’ just to see me.

    When he sees me he gives me this massive hug, and then will talk to me whilst still hugging me, and then we break the hug and he will complement me on what im wearing or my hair and he will move the hair out from my face if its in the way. He will also put his arm around me, and continue talking to me. The other week I spent to afternoon with him at University, and we were sitting down on a bench and he had his arm around me resting his head on my shoulder, and then he would hold my hand and play with my fingers.

    When we crossed the street he grabbed my hand and held on to it tightly and he kissed my hand when we had crossed. He even blows me kisses just because. And the other day I saw him, and he did all these things again but when we had to go he gave me this amazing hug, although his hands were quite low and then he kept his arms around me but pulled back and just looked at me and smiled and then kissed my forehead, it looked like he was going to kiss me on the lips… and then he was saying he didnt want me to go! Then he was back hugging me and I was resting my head on his shoulder and he was on mine.. it was the cutest thing! And he then grabbed my hands and slowly pulled away. ..

    Does he like me? Or is he just being really friendly. …

  70. So,I’m unsure if this guy likes me.We both attend the same university.We were both on thins singing group at my school that’s how I met him.A lot of girls are crazy for him and I don’t want to be in the same boat. I’m one of those people who wants to be in control and not feel vulnerable.Of course I wouldn’t think he likes me of there weren’t reasons to believe so.I find him staring at me.I play in his hair and beard…..also whenever enter the rooms he tenses up.He’s always grooming himself whenever I’m around.I’m 20 and he’s 23.I’m black and he’s white.I may have him confused .I confessed to him that I like him but roght after that I told him how I wanted my career so I wouldn’t date anyone.But whenever we see each other we just stand there smiling at one another.I need advice help!!!!!

  71. I know this guy who is my vocal teacher, so we chat through video. I have noticed he plays with his hair and pulls it back. He also licks his lips, but he also has his mouth closed and is pushing his tongue against his cheek and he does this a lot. He also looks at me a lot and smiles, and jokes around a lot with me. He also adjust his glasses, touches his nose a lot. He even play with the top part of his shirt. On cam he has tried to reach out his hands to me, which were up wards, he also sits real close, and a few times, he leaned his head in real close, so I seen his ears. lol. He likes to tease me sometimes in a playful way. This guy does use his hands to talk a lot, but also to teach me to sing. He even danced for me. lol. I am not sure if he just being friendly, or if he really likes me. I noticed today he was dressed nicer, though he dressed nice before but he looked different, but in a good way. My friend noticed to, she said he looked like a doctor. lol, and he had his hair slicked back. She see this guy before on my cam, she thought it was a different person. I really don’t know what to think..

  72. There was these boy… i think he likes me… but i dont have enough trust myself to believe m guts… today… is my birthday.. :)) igot hit by a ball he was like laughing so hard his not the person who hit me a ball in my face… His laughing but he said Are u ok 3 time while holding my shoulder what do you think? :( is it good or bad?? And my friends say some crazy stuffs about it lol

  73. One morning I was washing dishes (his) and as he passed behind me he gently kissed my exposed skin on my back without saying a word and continued on by. I was wearing a slightly low back shirt. What was he saying with that gesture?

  74. Okay, so I really like this guy and I’ve known him for about 11 years now….
    Not until about a year ago did we start flirting. The first move he made was when we were playing cards and he said I was trying to trick him with my “feminine charm.” So then, a week later, I got a random friend request from him. We chatted. We’ve continued this for a year. We would sometimes talk for 3 hours!!! He and my brother are good friends. At a concert we went to with friends, when we had to enter the door, he actually held me close to him and walked me to the door. He offered to pay for my dinner as well. At the middle of the night on the way back he noticed I was tired, and patted me lightly on the back affectionately and said, “Poor Lilli, so tired.” When we played cards earlier that day while waiting in line for the concert, as he dealt the cards our hands touched repeatedly as if on purpose. But then what is confusing I when my brother is around and I’m hanging out with both of them, he acts a little less flirty…. Someone help!!!!

  75. the guy i flirt wth at the office always raises his eyebrow at me whats it mean

  76. An impressive share! I have just forwarded this onto a colleague who had been conducting a little research
    on this. And he in fact ordered me dinner due to
    the fact that I found it for him… lol. So allow me to reword this….
    Thanks for the meal!! But yeah, thanx for spending
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  77. Omg this guy I like does just about everything!!

  78. I’m around this guy at work and we are standing around he always sits down like almost like a frog ..Or like catcher at a baseball game
    .. He does this when its just us or around or a group of people we work with. What does this body language mean ?

  79. My boyfriend reaches his hand out turned sideways slightly, so wat does that mean?

  80. my bofreind kisses my forehead and the top of my hand he also kisses my neck and chest, face, lips and also slips the tounge. he slips hiss hand in between my thighs to. we are both virgins but i dont know if any of what he does might mean he wants sex hes just not telling me.

  81. This guy just became my bf yesterday. And he’s my first bf so I don’t know much about it… He didn’t kiss me bc that would be too fast for nigh of us but like 15 minutes before he had to go, he rested his forehead against mine and closed his eyes. And we stayed like that for a while. What does that mean?

  82. So there’s this guy that I have in all my classes at school. He’s naturally funny and okay looking. (Just so you know, I’m not much of a girly girl, so I usually don’t really care about male appearances.)

    More than a couple of times, I would catch in staring at me, but he never breaks eye contact, and me, being as competitive, wouldn’t either. Sometimes we just stay there, staring at each other for long periods of time with blank faces until the teacher speaks and I break eye contact (because I’m more interested in my education that I am in boys).

    Anyway, every once in a while when this happens, he would quickly raise his eyebrows multiple times in a row. I always felt like that meant something, but I never bothered to ponder too much about it. Whenever he does that, I’m not sure how to react, so I just look away.

    Now, here’s the problem: since he’s naturally funny, he does get a lot of attention from a lot of people esp. girls, but I’m not sure if he often stares at other girls like that or not (I don’t track his every move).

    I just want to know if that counts as a sign that he’s interested and possibly likes me or not….

  83. The guy I like gets so fidgety when I’m in the room with him. I’ve often caught him staring and when I look at him he looks away. When he passes me in a hallway he constantly runs his fingers through his hair or pulls at his shirt even though there is nothing wrong with either. He’s actually really cute but I find it hard to talk to him other than saying hello in passing or when I’ve to hand up files from the office. Even when he’s speaking to other people his body is directed towards me. Where I work it’s consists of a hallway and four rooms and when I’m working in any of the other rooms he constantly goes by at least 5 times and just has a quick glance in. He always brings a bring to disguise the fact he’s looking from the corner of his eye, I’ve watched him a couple of times.

    Am I over thinking this or is the cute nervous geeky guy interested?


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